Go Ask Alice wrote:
Leggie43 wrote:
So many great stories I love to read what people say about past. I particularly love watching old time photos from early 1800 onwards on utube..the wife thinks I am boring maybe I am but its something I enjoy. People had nothing a lot had no shoes but all looked happier than people today

I agree, nowt wrong with a bit of nostalgia.
I genuinely feel blessed to have been born in this country in 1965 - and believe that folk born between the mid 1950s and the early '70s got the best of the older ways - disciple for example - but also much more freedom as a child compared to today.
I am saddened at the world my children and grandchildren have inherited, where kids are driven everywhere, and schools look like prisons with massive fences and CCTV. My generation had a much more productive time as children, and were free to roam everywhere from around 7 years onwards.
Yes, as Snowy's tale recounts we got into mischief occasionally - but we knew where the line was drawn. We also developed skills that few modern kids would be allowed to. By the time I was ten I could light the coal fire before me mam and dad got up, cook breakfast, catch fish, fire an air rifle, fix any problem with my push-bike without asking me dad, read a map and how to use a compass, and many other things that precious few modern kids even get the chance to do.
I have been called a Luddite by people younger than me as I hate smartphones and don't bother with things like satnavs and smart watches. I am not a Luddite, I just know how to do shit without needing these trinkets of modern life. I can get within a few miles of most places in the UK just by knowing the motorways and A roads, and my trusty RAC UK road map is always in the boot of the car in the unlikely event I get lost.
Sure, some things are better - I own a computer (desktop, not laptop) and use it for stuff like web forums, and researching our family tree - but still know how to do things without it.
Take a phone off a bairn of today and they would be royally fucked without it. Disagree with me by all means, but I think you should not be allowed a smartphone until you are 18, and that giving a child one is abuse.
And don't get me started on them deciding what "gender" they are at 10 years old.
World's gone mad...
You sir are a mirror image of my thoughts….I was recently surprised that in a survey of young men under 30, 90% couldn’t replace a three pin plug, that’s a bit sad.
As for mobile phones, they’re a curse, you’re always on call …so apart from going out in the car and having a breakdown it can sunbathe all day on the window sill…I’m amazed at the number of young people again under 30 walk about clutching them like they’re waiting for the lottery win to call them …all that technology to chat pointlessly……love it too when there’s an accident/incident, no one helps, they just record it like gormless cows in a field.
As for roaming, at the age of 8 ……four of us on a Sunday would go to either Seaton, the Headland or Crimdon via the Brus tunnel.
Funny though how you had a sense of discipline ingrained in you, plus a conscience…you could define right from wrong and the consequences were beyond most kids apprehension nowadays.
I notice a lot of parents want to be friends with their kids, great when you’re older, but in the formative years you have to have to be like a shepherd, keep a distance, be there watching everything but step in when there’s a problem.
I fear for a lot of kids nowadays, they just seem ill equipped to cope sometimes.
As for getting ferried everywhere by car, we’re going to end up with asthmatic flat footed kids with no sense of direction eventually according to a great man.